120 Creative Would You Rather Questions To Ask Your Spouse and Family

We know you have plenty of conversations about the to-do list, the kids, and even hard conversations about your marriage. There’s a time and place for all these, but in the same vein, it’s equally as important to have lighthearted, fun, “this doesn’t really matter in the grand scheme of things,” conversations.

That’s why we’ve put together a list of 120 of the best would you rather questions. Would you rather go back to elementary school or high school? Would you rather buy a lake house or a beach house? Would you rather have leaves for hair or pumpkins for feet? These would you rather questions bring life into your relationship, relieve stress, remove seriousness, and allow you to talk casually and conversationally—kind of like you did when you were just dating!

So, dream a little, think outside of the box, and have follow-up conversation based on these 120 would you rather questions. You could run through them rapid-fire style and see what your spouse says. You could try to guess what your spouse would say first and then see if you were right. Or, you could ask each question with “why” at the end. Would you rather give up your favorite food or your favorite TV show, and why?

Print out the PDFs of questions to keep in a jar in your living room or download them to your phone to reference at your next dinner date. Check out the extensive list below of would you rather questions for adults and kids.

Back-to-School Themed Would You Rather Questions

Fall Themed Would You Rather Questions

Random Would You Rather Questions

Christmas Themed Would You Rather Questions

Winter Themed Would You Rather Questions

Spring Themed Would You Rather Questions

20 Back-to-School Themed Would You Rather Questions

Whether you have school-age kids or not, August screams “back-to-school.” So, put yourself in a back-to-school mindset and answer these school themed would you rather questions.

Would you rather…

1. Go back to elementary school or high school?
2. Drive a school bus to work every day or have your parents drive you to work every day?
3. Have a top locker or bottom locker?
4. Have nap time or recess time every day?
5. Do math homework or science homework?
6. Read a book a week or write an essay a week?
7. Go to prom with a date or with your friends?
8. Be a cheerleader or football player or be in the student section at a Friday night game?
9. Take P.E. or art class?
10. Have a longer summer and not as many breaks during the year or a shorter summer with a lot of breaks during the year?
11. Have no homework or no tests for a month?
12. Have a chef prepare gourmet meals for lunch or have multiple fast food lunch options?
13. Have sports practice in the morning or afternoon?
14. Participate in a school talent show or join a school club?
15. Have a robot carry everything for you or have a robot take notes for you?
16. Play bass drum or trumpet in the marching band?
17. Have rulers for arms or pencils for fingers?
18. Wear a school uniform or pick out your own clothes?
19. Have all your favorite teachers but no friends in your classes or have your least favorite teachers but classes with all your friends?
20. Eat the same lunch every day and you choose it or have a different lunch every day and you never know what it is?

20 Fall Themed Would You Rather Questions 

As soon as you close the door on “back-to school,” your brain can start thinking about all things fall. Use these fun, festive, fall themed would you rather questions on your next fall date. 

Would you rather… 

1. Wear a comfy sweatshirt or a thick sweater? 
2. Go on a brisk morning walk or evening walk? 
3. Get fruity candy or chocolate candy on Halloween? 
4. Carve or paint pumpkins? 
5. Watch a football game at home or in the stadium? 
6. Roast s’mores or hot dogs? 
7. Go to the fair or a fall festival? 
8. Play cornhole or pickleball? 
9. Eat regular chili or chicken chili? 
10. Wear a Halloween costume every day in October or a turkey costume every day in November? 
11. Go trick-or-treating or pass out candy at home? 
12. Eliminate turkey or ham from Thanksgiving? 
13. Drink hot apple cider or eat apple cider donuts? 
14. Stargaze and fall asleep in a tent or cozy up with a book in a cabin? 
15. Ride a Ferris wheel or a roller coaster? 
16. Eat a funnel cake or a fried Oreo? 
17. Have leaves for hair or pumpkins for feet? 
18. Bake pumpkin bread or an apple pie? 
19. Take a scenic drive to see fall foliage or go apple picking? 
20. Decorate with autumn-themed or spooky decorations? 

20 Random Would You Rather Questions

It’s a batch of random would you rather questions—there’s no rhyme or reason, just creative questions that will really have you thinking…would you rather always have itchy feet or sticky feet? You’ve got to decide!

Would you rather…

1. Eat dinner food for breakfast every day or eat breakfast food for dinner every day?
2. Every season be summer or winter?
3. Wear the same outfit for a year or switch closets with your mom or dad?
4. Make a fancy meal at home or enjoy a fancy meal at a restaurant?
5. Always have itchy feet or sticky feet?
6. Have more hours in a day or more days in week?
7. Be backstage with your favorite band or be an extra in your favorite movie?
8. Sing along or dance along to every song you hear?
9. Meet your favorite singer or actor?
10. Be a waiter or a hairdresser?
11. Lose your Netflix subscription or Spotify premium?
12. Be able to fly like a bird or swim like a fish?
13. Have an Australian or a British accent?
14. Fall on stage or forget your speech at graduation?
15. Always wear clown shoes or always have a foam finger on one hand?
16. Live in a studio apartment in a city or live in a big house in the middle of nowhere?
17. Speak every language in the world or be able to talk to animals?
18. Live on the moon for a month or live in a submarine for a month?
19. Have a private jet or a private yacht?
20. Communicate only via interpretative dance or puns for a day?

20 Christmas Themed Would You Rather Questions

“We elves try to stick to the four main food groups: candy, candy canes, candy corn, and syrup.” So, would you rather garnish all your food with candy canes or eat syrup on all your food? Check out our 20 unique Christmas themed would you rather questions below. 

Would you rather… 

1. Decorate for Christmas on 11/1 or after Thanksgiving? 
2. Have a real Christmas tree or an artificial Christmas tree? 
3. Drink hot chocolate or eggnog? 
4. Give or receive gifts? 
5. Watch “A Charlie Brown Christmas” or “Home Alone?” 
6. Hang out with Buddy the elf or the Grinch for the day? 
7. Garnish all your food with candy canes or eat syrup on all your food? 
8. Attend a Christmas concert or go ice-skating? 
9. Decorate Christmas cookies or a gingerbread house? 
10. Have a snowball fight or build a snowman? 
11. Have a “white” Christmas or spend Christmas at the beach? 
12. Wear a Santa suit or Christmas pajamas every time you leave the house in December? 
13. Be an elf in Santa’s workshop or be a reindeer guiding Santa’s sleigh? 
14. Decorate the Christmas tree or wrap Christmas presents? 
15. Have a beard like Santa or ears like an elf? 
16. Have Christmas music playing on repeat or Christmas movies playing on repeat? 
17. Have your house smell like pine or sugar cookies? 
18. Leave your Christmas tree up year-round or lights on your house year-round? 
19. Get a fun but useless gift or a practical but boring gift? 
20. Star in your favorite Christmas movie or sing with your favorite Christmas singer? 

20 Winter Themed Would You Rather Questions 

There are a few big holidays that take place in the winter…Christmas, anyone…but otherwise, winter can feel dreary at times. It’s cold, it’s dark, it’s dead…if winter isn’t your fave, no worries. Spark some fun conversation with your spouse during one of those drab days using these winter themed would you rather questions. 

Would you rather… 

1. Eat classic beef chili or chicken chili? 
2. Take a traditional winter vacation to the mountains or head to the beach? 
3. Go skiing or snowboarding? 
4. Go sledding or snowmobiling? 
5. Take down Christmas decor on 12/26 or leave it up through January? 
6. Celebrate New Year’s Eve at home or head into town? 
7. Celebrate Valentine’s Day at home or head into town? 
8. Be snowed in with your in-laws or entire extended family? 
9. Watch the snow fall from inside your home or be outside while the snow is falling? 
10. Have a carrot for a nose or buttons for eyes? 
11. Be a snowman or a penguin for a day? 
12. Wear a cozy scarf or a warm hat and gloves? 
13. Go on a winter hike or curl up by the fire with a book? 
14. Always wear mittens or earmuffs?
15. Be stuck at home with no heat or no Wi-Fi? 
16. Be able to make snowflakes or ice sculptures? 
17. Top your hot chocolate with marshmallows or whipped cream? 
18. Have a fireplace or hot tub in your home? 
19. Take a cozy nap during a snowstorm or enjoy a bowl of soup while watching the snowstorm? 
20. Experience a snow day in the city or the countryside? 

20 Spring Themed Would You Rather Questions 

It’s the season of blooms and pollen and butterflies and pollen and warmer weather and pollen. Despite the dreaded spring allergies for some, this season opens the door for much appreciated “newness.” Say goodbye to bare trees and dark nights and hello to fresh flowers and longer, lighter evenings. On your next spring outing, take our 20 spring themed would you rather questions with you for an engaging conversation. 

Would you rather… 

1. Pick fresh flowers or strawberries? 
2. Get pinched for not wearing green on St. Patty’s Day or be on the receiving end of an April Fool’s Day joke? 
3. Participate in an Easter egg hunt or color Easter eggs? 
4. Spend an afternoon gardening or hiking? 
5. Get PEEPS or a chocolate bunny in your Easter basket? 
6. Wear a leprechaun costume for St. Patty’s Day or an Easter bunny costume for Easter? 
7. Deep clean your bathroom or organize your closet during spring cleaning? 
8. Buzz like a bee every time you talk or hop like a rabbit everywhere you go? 
9. Play disc golf or tennis? 
10. Go on a spring break vacation or have a spring break staycation? 
11. Have a picnic in the park or at the beach? 
12. Go camping in the mountains or by a lake? 
13. Get caught in a spring shower or thunderstorm? 
14. Go to an outdoor concert or a food festival? 
15. Go on a bike ride or walk through botanical gardens? 
16. Wear sandals or sneakers? 
17. Wake up to birds chirping or gentle rain falling? 
18. Curl up in a hammock and read a book or take a nap? 
19. Enjoy a glass of homemade lemonade or a batch of homemade cookies? 
20. Have flowers for hair or a permanent bunny tail?