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60 Free Printable Family Conversation Starters

November 16, 2022

Fun and Creative Family Conversation Starters

It’s likely your family’s schedule is filled to the brim with school, church, music, sports events, and more. Between juggling everyone’s responsibilities, you may not all be in the same place at the same time often. So, when you are, and we encourage you to make this a priority for your family, we want to help you have meaningful conversations that include all members of the family.  

Whether you’re at the dinner table, in the car, or on vacation, we hope you can use these family conversation starters as a guide to spur meaningful and engaging conversations with your spouse and kids. Print out the PDFs of questions, and keep them handy in a bowl or envelope. Then, when you’re all together, let everyone choose a question to read and have the whole family share their answers. You could also download the free PDFs to your phone to keep as a reference and use when you’re waiting in line at an amusement park or while you’re walking to the park. 

Either way, you’ve got the easy part—sharing in fun conversations with your family. Take the pressure off your back, and get to know your kids by asking them questions you hadn’t thought of. Let the family conversation starters lead you, and save what you don’t get to for next time.  

Imaginative Family Conversation Starters

Family Conversation Starters About Our Family

Holiday Themed Family Conversation Starters

20 Imaginative Family Conversation Starters

Whether your kids are young and imaginative or they’re older and haven’t dreamt up crazy scenarios in a while, these imaginative conversation starters will certainly get your family thinking and talking!

  1. If you could build a treehouse to live in, what would you make it look like?
  2. If our pet(s) could talk, what would they say?
  3. If you could have one superpower, what would it be?
  4. What would your superhero name be?
  5. If you had a time machine, would you travel forward to the future or backward to the past?
  6. Would you rather live in the sky or in the ocean?
  7. If you turned invisible, where is the first place you would go?
  8. If you were granted one wish, only one, what would you wish for?
  9. For the next month, you can only eat three foods. What are you choosing?
  10. If you were made king or queen for the day, what is the first rule you would implement?
  11. You can combine two animals to create a new animal. What are you choosing?
  12. What would you name the new animal you created?
  13. If you could live inside one TV show for a week, what would it be?
  14. If you could turn a book character into a friend or family member, who would you choose?
  15. If our family lived in the zoo, what animals would we be?
  16. If you could fly for the day, where are three places you would go?
  17. If you could invite a person from history to come to dinner, who would you invite?
  18. If you had a robot, what is one thing you would have them do for you?
  19. If you could invent a new holiday, what would it be?
  20. How would we celebrate your new holiday?

20 Family Conversation Starters About Our Family 

Next time your family is all together for a meal or just hanging out, use these conversation starters to get everyone sharing their favorite things about themselves and their favorite things about your family.  

  1. What is one thing you love about our family? 
  2. What is your favorite meal we eat together? 
  3. What is one thing you love about our home? 
  4. Who do you think you are the most like in our family? 
  5. Do you think you want to get married when you grow up? 
  6. What is your favorite family tradition we have? 
  7. What is one thing you love about each of your siblings? 
  8. If you could switch places with your parents for the day, what would you do? 
  9. What is one thing you think we could do better as a family? 
  10. What is your favorite family vacation we have gone on? 
  11. What is one thing you love about your parents? 
  12. Do you think you want to have kids when you grow up? 
  13. What is the best thing about being the age you are right now? 
  14. Where do you want us to take a family vacation to? 
  15. What is your favorite activity we do together? 
  16. What is a funny memory you have from our family? 
  17. What is one thing our family is good at? 
  18. Do you want to do a job like your parents when you grow up or something different? 
  19. What is the hardest thing about being the age you are right now? 
  20. If our family could have a family superpower, what would you want it to be? 

20 Holiday Themed Family Conversation Starters

While your family is gathered around the table for Thanksgiving, you’re in the car traveling to a holiday gathering, or you’re cuddled on the couch after decorating, use these holiday conversation starters to engage all members of your family in fun Christmas themed conversation. 

  1. What is your favorite holiday tradition our family does? 
  2. If you could invite a famous person to Christmas dinner, who would you invite? 
  3. What do you think the perfect winter wonderland looks like? 
  4. What is your favorite Christmas movie? 
  5. What is something you have done this year you are proud of? 
  6. Do you prefer white lights or colored lights at Christmastime? 
  7. If you could spend Christmas anywhere in the world, where would you go? 
  8. What is your favorite Christmas song? 
  9. If our Christmas tree was a palm tree, how would you decorate it? 
  10. What is your favorite Christmas gift you have ever received? 
  11. Who are three people you are thankful for? 
  12. What is one way we can give back to others during the holidays? 
  13. What is your favorite holiday food? 
  14. What is one memory from this year that brings you joy? 
  15. What are three things you are thankful for? 
  16. What is your favorite ornament on the Christmas tree? 
  17. If you could be in a Christmas movie, which one would you want to be in? 
  18. What is one item on your Christmas list? 
  19. What is your favorite holiday pie or dessert? 
  20. What is one thing you are already looking forward to next year? 

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